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生活中无处不在的40个法则,值得我们好好回味

这种关系越好,你就越爱。

与他们交谈时,您可以随时自动阻止那些您不喜欢的人。你的错总是比你更清楚。当你遇到一个你以前喜欢的人时,他们总是很高兴叫你去看。有一点秘密,第一个想要与他们分享。事实上,最关心你的人永远是爱你的人。

2,更害怕的事情更容易发生

口袋里装满了你刚购买的手机,你害怕在公共汽车上被盗。每隔一段时间,检查手机是否还在那里。这一举动引起了小偷的注意,最终手机被盗了。只是因为恐惧正在发生,你会非常担心。你越集中,就越容易犯错误。这是着名的墨菲定理。

3,心里不开心,写下来

这是一种清晰的美丽方式。由于“写作”动作,它具有感知和整合思想的功能。 “写作”可以将情感能量从虚无的“潜意识”提升到“意识”的层面。也就是说,从最初的感觉“我心中的波涛汹涌的心”到“我知道它是怎么发生的”,焦虑减少了。开始情绪康复。

4,炫耀内心的自信心

心理学认为“爱炫耀他人”是一种需要肯定和肯定的表现。这可能是因为通常不存在某些东西。一旦拥有,它希望通过羡慕外部世界建立信心。如果你不把自己暴露在幸福之中,你会不会自杀?如果是,请问为什么。记住:生活不是表演,你很棒!

5,女人爱叨叨

心理学研究表明,男性平均每天2000字(古代男性狩猎的习惯),女性每天说7000字(古代采摘水果和蔬菜的习惯)。有一天,当我回家的时候,我丈夫的2000字在公司里用完了。当我回到家时,我想休息和休息。我的妻子还有5000字。当我回到家时,我必须在我睡觉之前完成我的一天的话!然后就像这样创造了很多杯子!

6.悲伤中的泪水中含有有害物质,并被迫自杀

当人们感到悲伤时,他们会失去眼泪并且蛋白质含量高。这种蛋白质是由精神抑郁产生的有害物质,被抑制的物质积聚在体内,对健康不利。专家研究发现,眼泪可以缓解人们的抑郁情绪。哭,哭,不是罪!

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7,回复短信的速度

一个人喜欢你的程度通常与他返回你的短信的速度成正比。如果你的另一半越来越慢,恭喜你,你基本上已经被替换了,而且准确性非常高!

你害怕麻烦的人吗?

其实这不好!那些帮助过你的人比你帮助过的人更愿意帮助你一次。换句话说让别人喜欢你的最好方法就是不帮助他们,而是让他们帮助你。如果你想得到别人的善意,主动张口是没有害处的。

9.改变你的心态

将你所有的不幸总结成一句,然后问问自己:“3年后,这对你很重要吗?”

10.性心理学

那个积极地亲吻女人的男人是一个意想不到的事件,女人亲吻这个男人的主动性是一个有预谋的事件。法国《女性》杂志的最新研究发现,在潜意识中,每个女人都想被一个她爱的男人抓住,亲吻墙壁,这会给他们带来更多的快乐。专家分析说,大多数女性认为接吻是亲密关系中不可或缺的一部分,并渴望体验被重视和需要的感觉。

11.管理心理学

一个人的价值8000元,不议价仅为7500元。即使他节省了500件,他也真的冷却了他的心脏。当有更好的机会时,人们会离开。相反,他将支付他1万元,他将尽可能多地支付两倍。记住,我宁愿花两个人的钱来招募一个好人,也不要用一个人的钱来招募两个坏人。

12,食指有利于长文科,无名的手指有利于数学

美国巴斯大学测量了七十七岁七岁儿童右手指的长度,发现“手指比例”无名指是一个长得很好的数学分数的孩子。食指较长的儿童英语成绩较好。相同的计算方法也可用于成年男性和女性。成年女性的“手指比”通常是一个,即食指和无名指的长度相等,而成年男性主要是长无名指。

13.高智商的男性对伴侣更忠诚

化学专家金泽智说,对伴侣更忠诚的男性的平均智商为103,而不忠诚的男性的平均智商为97.智商高的男性越多,越珍惜其特异性。两性之间的关系。您可以在将来向其他人说这个。如果你不忠,你就是智障者!

14.关于哭泣

88.8% of people can improve their mood after crying, only 8.4% feel worse after crying; 70% don't hide from others when they cry; 77% cry at home; when is it easier to cry? 39% of the crying occurred in the evening, from 6 pm to 8 pm, is the easiest time to tears.

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15. Differences between men and women

Two men chased a woman, first gave up with a light-hearted one; two women chased a man, and gave up with a deep-hearted one.

16. Five major misunderstandings in domestic education

1 too high expectations, bring the child's hopeless; 2 excessive love, bring the child's ruthlessness; 3 excessive frequency intervention, bring the child's helplessness; 4 excessive protection, bring the child's incompetence; 5 too much Blame, bring the child's helplessness. Nature is the child's nature. Freedom is the child's nature. Stifling nature and nature is the energy and motivation to stifle growth. Such education cannot cultivate creative talents.

17. If you don't sleep well, you will gain weight.

Insufficient sleep, easy to gain weight. People who sleep 5-6 hours a day are on average 6-8 pounds more than those who sleep 7-8 hours a day. When normal sleep time is deprived, the body produces a lot of anti-stress hormones to slow down the metabolism, and the appetite will increase the next day. If you have to get up at 7 in the morning, it is best to sleep around 11 o'clock the night before. Take a hot bath before going to bed, or read this novel.

18, husband character can change the appearance of his wife

Psychological research found that the appearance of a wife is closely related to her husband's personality and his attitude towards his wife. A broad-minded husband who does not easily lose his temper can accommodate the wife and enjoy full freedom. With such a husband, the wife will have smooth and delicate skin, not easy to grow acne and pigmentation, and not easy to age, often radiant.

19, actively embrace each other from behind

xx心理学认为,从背后积极地互相拥抱代表着一种保护,表明拥抱愿意给予爱和关怀。因此,使用这个睡眠姿势代表了这个人愿意给你爱的承诺。这个人也会因这种积极的关怀和爱而感到高兴。

20.鬼震综合症

我一直觉得手机在振动(范围),我花了很长时间把它砸了,但我什么都没发现。

21.利用潜意识的力量

早上起床前和起床前10分钟每天至少花10分钟,因为这两个时间段是进入潜意识的最佳时间。所以,如果你渴望成功,爱情,婚姻等,请在这两个时期想象!你的潜意识逐渐让你通过想象力产生自信,并引导你得到你想要的东西。

22.叛逆心理学

心理学家菲尼贝克(Fini Baker)做了一个实验,在这个实验中,一个禁止涂鸦的标志挂在男人的浴室里。其中一个警告:“严格禁止涂鸦。”另一件作品以相对柔和的语调陈述:“请不要涂鸦。”然后调查在列表的浴室涂抹的数量。结果,被“不连续的涂鸦”品牌禁止的厕所更加严重。

23,如何了解自己

首先,你有什么,你想要什么第二,你可以放弃什么。对大多数人来说:这是什么,很容易评估自己的状态;你想要什么,你内心有明确的想法;最难的是,不知道还是敢于放弃。这可以决定你想要什么。真的意识到,没有人放弃,没有人可以得到一切。

24.撒谎的孩子有兴趣

Foreign studies have found that 50% of three-year-old children will lie, 90% of those who will be deceived at the age of four, and almost 12-year-old children will lie. A child's lying is actually a sign of cognitive development. The more well-developed cognitive function, the better the lying skills, because they have a way to lie. Children lying may be the embodiment of early wisdom. These people are more likely to become leaders after they become big.

25. Pass the happiness

A study published in the British Medical Journal shows that the effects of happy emotions can reach as many as three levels of interpersonal relationships. People who know happiness will increase your chances of becoming happy by 15.3% and friends who have happy friends, increasing by 9.8%.

26. When the night comes, it is the most vulnerable time for a person, and it is also the time when I miss the most crazy.

When you are concerned about a person, you will wonder if he is also worried about you. I am worried because I like it, and I am sad because I am worried. It’s true that a person is not alone. When you miss someone, you are truly lonely.

27, husband and wife blood type matching

1 Equality: A male-A female, O male-O female, AB male-AB female, B male-B female;

2 love type: O male-A female, B male-O female, A male-AB female, AB male-B female;

3 management type: A male-O female, O male-B female, AB male-A female, B male-AB female;

4 complementary type: O male-AB female, AB male-O female, B male-A female, A male-B female.

28. I suspect that I have made a mistake and I will not change my answer.

After completing the answer sheet, I found that the two answers do not know which one to choose. At this time, should I change the answer? According to the survey, 55% of people think that changing the answer will damage the results, only 15.5% think it will improve; but the actual situation is: 58% correct the answer, only 20% correct the wrong, and 22% wrong The correction was wrong. Therefore, the next time I encountered this situation: change!

xx29. Why don't men like to open their hearts?

Psychologists have discovered that talking about problems between partners can make men very uncomfortable. This is because when a woman lists the problems between the two, the man first experiences a strong sense of shame, a sense of frustration that is incapable of being a partner. He will unconsciously resist the pain he has brought, and protect his self-esteem by means of "avoidance."

30, 8.2 seconds fell in love

Scientists believe that men and women meet for the first time, and the focus on the duration determines whether the two can fall in love. If a man meets a woman for more than 8.2 seconds when he meets for the first time, then he is not only attracted, but is likely to have fallen in love.

31, love is not 1+1=2, but 0.5+0.5=1

The two cut each half of their own personality and shortcomings, and then together they are complete. If there is no mutual tolerance and tolerance, it is difficult for two people to become one.

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32. Is this psychological adjustment done by you?

1 Look at the people who can't look good; 2 Look at the people who look down; 3 Do things that you don't want to do well; 4 Think about things that don't work; 5 Take back the words that you can't get out of; 6 Can't breathe Swallow; 7 I want to indulge my heart. In fact, you don't have to do it all the time, but if you do this a few times, you will: 1 emotional intelligence is high; 2 positions are raised; 3 wages are up; 4 friends are more.

33. Seven dreams may indicate disease

1 dreams of someone knocking your head: related to the nervous system of the brain; 2 hearing strange noises in the dream: related to the auditory center; 3 dreaming that the trachea is stuck in the suffocation: related to the respiratory system; 4 dreams are chased: Heart supply is related; 5 walking is unstable: related to angina; 6 dreams of falling from a height: related to heart disease; 7 dream of water: related to liver and gallbladder kidney.

34. Beber rule

xx原来的报纸已经变成了10元,你会感到无法接受;相比之下,原价5000元的电脑上涨50元,你不会有这么大的反应。 Beber规则表明,当一个人经历强烈的刺激时,后来给予的刺激对他来说可以忽略不计。

35,其实生活只有900个月!

事实上,你可以画一张30×30的表格,而A4纸就足够了。每个月,我都会检查一个网格。你的一生都在这张纸上。因此,您将有一个清晰的概念:您的生活将如何度过?

36,愚弄有时是一种依赖

心理学说,大多数人只会为那些安全的人发脾气,因为他们在这种安全范围内。你下意识地知道对方不会离开你。它有时是一种依赖。

37.恋人应对策略

1不要在所有事情中给对或错,先考虑一下,了解对方的潜在动机,并相互理解。

2通常保持适当的心理距离,过于接近审美疲劳。

3不要习惯抱怨和形成负面公式,试着在笑声中解决问题。

4耐受性正在开启。我们不是圣徒,也没有必要对彼此的行为过于挑剔。

5互相尊重,让他们有理由爱你。

38.一流妇女的八个特点

1有大女人的特质,有小女人的感受; 2件大事很清楚,小事情很混乱; 3自力更生和自力更生; 4可以像水一样温和,但也像钢一样坚固; 5喜欢孩子; 6在大厅,进入厨房; 7爱,会美; 8有浪漫情怀。

39.男孩和女孩分别有6种基本的爱情需求

男孩需要的爱的形式:信任,接受,感恩,赞美,认可,鼓励;

女孩需要的爱的形式:关心,理解,尊重,忠诚,体贴,舒适。

40,男女心理学

如果一个男人主动为你拿包,带你到路边,主动为你拉椅子,不要感激。这只表明他在无数女朋友面前教过他。能让他记住的女人总是改变他的女人,而不是你。因此,男性越详细,对女性来说就越具挑战性。

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